Aug 20 2012
Regardless of whether people agree with it, this is what kids do. I know that I was boy-crazy from a young age but that doesn't mean I turned into a slut. (I was actually a late bloomer.) There really is a big difference between that first kiss and first REAL kiss. And even if she thinks it's a REAL kiss now, she may realize later on that it wasn't. Either way, it wouldn't hurt for your friend (or you) to start talking about these things with her daughters. She doesn't necessarily have to give them the full sex talk, she can gauge where the girls are right now as far as experience and curiousity and then go from there. And as someone else pointed out, it is important to not only prepare them for what will happen, but also to let them know that they are in control of the situation and have the right to say no to anything at any time.