Contrary to some people’s popular beliefs, being single is not a kiss of death. Being a single and savvy Auntie means that you are in a position of power, because you are in the perfect position to attract the love of your life and make them yours. How hot is that?

Maybe it’s time for you to break out the long-honored art of seduction. Think of it as the sexy side to the laws of attraction. Getting in touch with your inner seductress will help you have more fun, tap into your senses, and be a little flirtier as you find the love of your life.

Here are a few tips for being a single, savvy, and seductive Auntie.

Be confident.

Confidence is sexy. Have you ever been at an event where someone walked into the room and everyone turned to look? That is confidence working in full effect. Whenever you enter a room, walk in like the queen that you are. Own your presence. When you do this, it will attract people to you. Everyone will wonder who you are.

Get a Seduction Signature.

What’s the one important part of your personality that you’re known for that you can turn into your seduction signature? Is there a particular piece of clothing people identify with you? How you walk? Your voice? Basically, what makes you unique? It can be something as simple as always wearing a saucy shade of red lipstick. As you think about creating a seduction signature, think about icons, such as Mae West, Marilyn Monroe, and Josephine Baker. Those ladies created personas, based on a signature idea, that seduced everyone who came into their paths.
 
Show off your maternal instincts.

While I am not suggesting that you use your niece or nephew to pick up domestic-minded men (though I’m not knocking that it if works for you...), show off your maternal instincts every now and then. There are times that I get approached more when I am hanging out with my nephew. It is probably because it gives off the image of caring and nurturing, which are two qualities most men find sexy in women. Spend some quality time with your niece or nephew to bring out some of your maternal flair, and also to remind yourself how to have carefree fun.

Wear a sensual scent.

Do you realize that the perfume or scent that you are wearing also affects the way people think about you? Scent memories are some of the strongest associations we have, so make sure that you are selective about the perfume that you are wearing. Ask your niece or nephew which scents they like on you. It may sound funny, but children have a better sense of smell than adults. Smell has been important since the days of the Egyptians, who were the original creators of perfume. Cleopatra used to wear perfume on her lips so that when her lovers left, her scent would linger. Pick a unique fragrance that leaves your essence lingering in the air.

Create a sensual environment in your bedroom.

Make sure that your bedroom is a place that awakens your senses. If your bedroom is appealing, it will be a space that you will want to share with someone, which will in turn help you give off an energy that is frisky and fun, something that is very appealing and seductive to men. Get rid of old sheets, old, ratty nightgowns, and anything else that does not feel good. Prepare your space so that the universe knows that you are ready for love and something a little spicier!

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Published on May 3, 2012