The past month and a half have been life changing for me. I decided to stop ignoring my psychic ability and throw myself into developing my clairvoyant skills, which has given me the gift of being a trance medium. When I tell people about this, almost without missing a beat the next thing that they ask me is about love or a relationship.

I love that people ask me the question since I have decided that I really want to use my super powers to assist people with having more love in their lives. There have been many “aha” moments for me when it comes to love and how it connects with a person’s spirit. Sometimes, we make finding true love harder than it needs to be. If we remember to go with the flow, it becomes easier to embrace the fact that the right person always arrives right on time.

Every minute you are manifesting what comes into your life. If you want love, then you can choose to have love at this very moment. Of course, it is not as simple as wishing a tall, dark, and handsome man would fall through your roof, and all of a sudden, there he is. If it were that simple, every single woman would be sitting at home waiting for him to drop in. It is said that love is the highest emotion to vibrate on. Every day, focus on the things and people that you love in your life, such as your friends, your nephew or niece, your job or the business you are starting on the side; basically, there are so many things to love about life. Focusing on what you have and not what you lack only brings more of it into your life.

Understand that you accept the love that you think that you deserve. This can help you take a really good look at who you are dating and why you are dating them. Next time someone tells you that you are being too picky, be proud of it. If you are looking for a life partner, you should be selective because it will affect so many aspects of your life. There are many things to be considered and like Sheryl Sandberg said, “The most important career choice you'll make is who you marry.”

The best way for love to show up in your life is to not stress about it. This can be hard, especially when it feels like Mr. Right is taking his sweet time coming into your life. Sometimes, a gal has to kiss a lot of frogs before she kisses her prince. Keep enjoying your life, and that is when you are the most attractive and vibrant. A desperate person is far less attractive than someone who has it going on. This is making you deliciously datable and loveable. If having children is always a part of your life dreams, you may be a Savvy Auntie by divine chance or divine choice. Either way, those little ones are in your life for a reason. They were brought into your life for a reason, so shower them with love.

You are the Queen of your own kingdom, so rule it with love. The universe will respond by giving you so much more.

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Published: September 24, 2012