By Melanie Linn Gutowski

Parties. Food. Friends. These are all great things to have on your birthday, but when your special day falls late in the year, celebrating your own existence - or those of the kids in your life - can fall by the wayside. Having a birthday late in the year can be a tough juggle for anyone, but it's especially difficult for younger nieces and nephews. Here are some ways Savvy Aunties can help keep their special day truly special.

-Make a fuss. While we Aunties generally do this already, it doesn't hurt to make a little extra fuss over a December birthday. Take time out of holiday parties to sing "Happy Birthday," or include the birthday boy or girl's favorite dish in the party offerings.

-Politely ignore the upcoming (or recently passed) holidays. Opt out of "combination" gifts that meld holiday presents with birthday gifts; offer distinctive gifts for each occasion.

-Make a "date." The holidays are busy times for many families, so reserve a date well in advance for a special celebration. Take your niece out for a manicure, or take your nephew to the skating rink. Let them choose their favorite things to do, and then indulge them!

-Celebrate a "half-birthday" in the spring or summer months. Have your niece or nephew choose a date on which to celebrate a half-birthday with presents, cake, or a favorite activity. This could be a full-blown party, or it could be a one-on-one event for the two of you.

Melanie Linn Gutowski, Savvy Auntie's Associate Editor, is a proud Godmother and ABC.

Published: December 21, 2010