Yes, our precious nieces and nephews are back in their saddles at school. What better a time than to look at our own process of learning and growing in the school of love and life!

I mentor women to feel more empowered and abundant as they approach dating, relating - and life in general. As Oprah says, ‘one thing that I know for sure’ is that the quality of our experiences in love, career and life are always directly proportionate to our relationship with ourselves. 

I see so many women, Savvy Aunties, focused on the ‘exterior’ part of themselves and their worlds, while neglecting their inner-selves.  What happens as a result is that they remain disconnected from a powerhouse of a resource for ease, elegance and success in love and in life:  authentic ‘inner’self-care.

Now, don’t me wrong, I just received a fantastic mani-pedi today, and that’s one form of a self-care ‘ritual’ that has me feeling cared-for, and, well…pulled together a little bit.  And, what is a truly amazing platform for all of us to be ‘pulled together’ is that authentic ‘inner’ self-care. 

Lessons for us!

Taking time to honor what makes you feel beautiful, nurtured and connected to the highest version of yourself is so empowering. Speaking your Truth (with loving delivery) despite how it may be received by your man. Saying ‘No’ to a toxic friend or colleague that drains your energy in order to say ‘Yes’ to what’s more aligned with your highest good. Reading or listening to inspiring material that lifts you up, and connects you to the bigger picture.

As our nephews and nieces take on new learning, we should do the same! Consider learning how to honor that voice inside that knows exactly what you need - and how to receive it.