Chrysanthemum
by Kevin Henkes
Ages 4-8
Paperback & Hardcover

Aunts need to be tuned into the social pressures children face in school and other social settings.  We are an important source of strength and someone our nieces and nephews can turn to for advice and support.  I highly recommend that you read a wonderful book together called Chrysanthemum. It will open up the door to talk about teasing, bullying, and other challenges in a little one’s life.

A little girl- a happy, secure, content, well-loved little girl- is thrust into that brutal, unfriendly place called SCHOOL.  On her very first day, she skips all the way with a pretty smile on her face to match her equally beautiful name- Chrysanthemum.

At least she always thought it was beautiful.  Until kids like Jo, Rita and Victoria change her mind.  She’s a flower! Smell her! Pick her! Each day Chrysanthemum returns home more dejected; comfort foods and family time are no longer enough to restore her confidence.  

And then one day a new music teacher with a magical voice joins the classroom, winning over all the children.  She has a special secret to share about her first name and Chrysanthemum blossoms into a happy child once again.

A Flowery Story about Fitting In

The desire to fit in and make friends is present at the core of every child entering new social situations, especially school.  Kevin Henkes’ story is a touching tale of a child who struggles to make friends simply because her name is so different. She ultimately learns to appreciate her uniqueness, after enduring some heavy-duty teasing, and comes out stronger for it.

At some point in every child’s life, he or she will undoubtedly experience feeling left out, sad, and insecure, just like Chrysanthemum.  It is a rite of passage that no one can or should escape.  The key is to overcome the situation relatively unscathed; preferably, with more strength and dignity of character.  And that is exactly what Chrysanthemum demonstrates.  

This book is one that must be read to every child. The story is extremely balanced. The teasers are not evil bullies and Chrysanthemum is not a highly sensitive victim. However, the effects of even minimal teasing can be devastating and long-lasting if the child on the receiving end does not have a strong support system.  

The valuable lessons learned in this endearing story should be shared with every niece and nephew.