5 Ways Aunts Can Inspire Kids to Get Excited to Grow Wealth
By Amy Levin-Epstein, Ballooning Nest Eggs
Some
kids get thrilled when their piggy bank gets full. Others would rather
play with Barbies or video games. Even if you don’t have a little Alex
P. Keaton who aspires to be rich, involving your nieces and nephews in
the process of starting their savings accounts and developing investment
portfolios can be fun. Here are five ways to get them excited about
growing their wealth:
1. Share Memories of College
Tell
your nieces and nephews about how you and your friends sled down the
big hill on campus on cafeteria trays. Or how you met their godmother
and your best friend sitting next to you in Psych 101. Share your fun,
wacky and mildly wild college stories. Then, discuss how your parents
(or their grandparents) invested or saved money to get you there.
“Explaining
the purpose of financial gifts and supports, like a college or
educational fund, can help children understand the importance of
managing money,” says child psychologist Frank Zelinger. “Personal examples and family stories are always carefully listened to by grandchildren.”
You
can also share lessons you’ve learned about finances since then –
including recent rough times. “Adults should not be afraid to discuss
their mistakes and possible misgivings regarding their own missed
opportunities,” says Zelinger. “Don’t be afraid to answer questions
honestly (using language appropriate for the child’s age and
understanding).”
2. Let Kids Contribute
You may be
spearheading the development of your niece’s or nephew’s nest egg
alongside the parents. Unless he or she becomes the next Justin Bieber
or Dakota Fanning, the earlier they start saving money, the better.
Youngsters should contribute an amount that is appropriate for their
age. For instance, a pre-teen might put $1 from a $5 per week allowance
into a savings or college fund. Or a teenager might put 10 percent of
their summer job earnings into their account. This can create a feeling
of ownership, and for older teens, it can have an almost immediate
positive impact, says Neale Godfrey, chairman and CEO at Children’s Financial Network, Inc.
“If
[college students] have contributed to a [college fund], there they
will figure out each time they skip a class it costs them X amount of
money,” says Godfrey, adding that the money should be from funds they
earned, not from gifts.
3. Invest in Companies Kids Can Relate To
Many
of us invest in companies that interest us, like Chipotle or Apple.
Kids are no different. They develop a connection with certain toys and
books. “A little kid might want to invest in the company that makes
their favorite toy, like Hasbro or Mattel. Or they might want to invest
in Disney,” says Godfrey, author of Money Doesn’t Grow On Trees.
If your nephew is obsessed with his iPhone, for example, talk
about Apple and how the company’s products are designed to improve our
lives. You can look up the stock history together, let them follow it on
their own, and then discuss why it may or may not be a good choice. If
it is, let them contribute a little money with you in the stock.
4. Save for a Big Dream
If
you have a niece under the age of 12, there’s a good chance she’ll get
an American Girl doll this holiday season. And as many of us aunts know,
young girls love to dress up their dolls, and they can glam them up at
the American Girl Salon. Besides the cost of the trip to the nearest
major city that has one, it might cost your niece six months of
allowance to get her doll’s hair cut and styled and ears pierced. Budget
it out. Is that worth saving for? Help her make that happen (with
either a piggy bank or a savings account), and she’ll remember not only
the experience but the practice of saving that got her there.
If
your Little Leaguer nephew gets a new glove this year, he might start talking
about the next baseball season and Spring Training. If you’re also
interested in a warm weather trip, suggest he save for tickets for his
favorite team – and then incorporate those excursion savings into the
budget for a vacation for the whole family.
5. Reach for the Stars
Talk
to your teen and pre-teen nieces and nephews about their favorite stars
who set great examples of how to manage money. For instance, Hilary
Duff has donated both money and time to Blessings In A Backpack,
part of Harvest USA, a charity that fights childhood hunger. After
Hurricane Katrina, she helped provide two million meals to children
affected.
Talk to the kids about how much money that would cost –
and how great it is that Duff donated part of her earnings to do that.
You can also talk about Selena Gomez buying her mom a house, and Justin
Bieber buying himself a $200,000 car. What are responsible choices? What
are big splurges, or even wastes of money? If your nieces and nephews
start saving money early and make smart spending decisions, they can be
stars too.
Discuss this:
How do you get your nieces
and nephews excited about money and building wealth? What does money
mean to them? What memories do you share with the kids about how you
learned the value of money?
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Ballooning Nest Eggs was founded by Amy Moses, a devoted aunt and digital media executive who noticed an opportunity: So many friends and family – from the moment their youngsters enter the world – seek to secure their financial futures. Yet they mostly all seem to be “going it alone,” by squirreling away paychecks into various investments. And, oh yes, often counting on (and secretly praying) the grandparents are doing done the same.
She recognized all the celebrations in youngsters’ lives offer a myriad of opportunities for the kids’ biggest champions – family and friends who adore those kids – to pitch in. Yet most are standing on the sidelines because asking for, and even giving, monetary gifts can make even the most socially-conscious adults cringe.
When we launch, Ballooning Nest Eggs will transform monetary gifting by providing parents with a thoroughly tasteful and modern way to corral their “person village,” and together to reach a meaningful common goal: securing and growing our youngsters’ long-term wealth. We’re the first platform to truly take the “funny out money” and turn the “awwwkward” into memorable “awwww” moments for everyone.
Photo: Pictrough
Updated and Republished: September 14, 2016
Originally published: September 17, 2013