Best Tips to Get a Child to Sleep
By Katie Riley
Founded in 1917, the American Occupational
Therapy Association (AOTA) represents the professional interests and
concerns of more than 140,000 occupational therapists, assistants, and
students nationwide. For more information, go to http://www.aota.org.
Pediatric occupational therapist offers advice for a healthy nighttime routine to lull children off to dreamland.
You’ve
looked forward to hosting your nieces and nephews for the weekend for
weeks now. In perfect auntie fashion, you created the perfect day: lunch
at their favorite restaurant, a trip to a parent-approved movie, fresh
air out on the playground, and even the perfect kid-friendly dinner that
you know they’ll love. But when late evening rolls around and your
little visitors are cuter than ever in their fleece footie pajamas, you
realize a hurdle you didn’t anticipate: bedtime.
Winding down
and getting to sleep in a different place can be a challenge for most
adults, let alone children. Adhering to their typical bedtime routine
from home will help make the end of the day go as smoothly as the
beginning.
“As human beings, we all crave routine—it’s what
helps our brains function effectively. This is especially true for the
bedtime routine for children,” says Joy Doll, OTD, OTR/L, assistant
professor in the Department of Occupational Therapy at Creighton
University. “Children need to know that the daily routine of going to
bed is going to be consistent so they get the sleep they need to
recharge and be able to engage as fully as possible in play and school
to ensure good development.”
Doll and American Occupational Therapy Association offer the following tips for successfully sending children off to dreamland:
1. Explain the bedtime routine before bedtime and keep it in line with routines established at home.
Select
a bedtime based on the child’s age and schedule. Share reminders that
bedtime is coming throughout the evening by explaining the upcoming
evening activities of eating dinner, playtime, bath time, and putting on
pajamas. Establish a regular sequence of events that includes the
child’s participation, such as choosing books to read and songs to sing,
and asking the child what comes next.
2. Help the child relax.
To
help your niece or nephew unwind after a fun day, avoid caffeine,
exercise, and TV immediately before bedtime. Focus on cleaning up toys
and playing music to help the child calm down and signal that bedtime is
arriving.
3. Ensure that the child is safe.
For
younger children, prevent Sudden Infant Death Syndrome (SIDS) by keeping
blankets and stuffed animals out of the crib. Place nightlights in the
bedroom and bathroom for trips to the potty, keep blind cords out of
reach, and consider bed rails or a bedside pillow to prevent and cushion
falls out of bed.
4. Help the child feel comfortable.
Make
checking the closet and under the bed part of the routine for kids who
are afraid of “monsters.” Consider sensory issues like scratchy sheets,
room temperature, lighting, and kitchen smells. Support the child by
instilling confidence that he or she can overcome anxieties or fears
that interfere with sleep.
5. Foster sleeping independence.
Allow
young children to fall asleep on their own as they do at home to show
your confidence in their ability. Older children should go to bed at an
established time, even if they do not feel tired.
Sleep is one
of the many daily occupations (activities) that occupational therapy
practitioners help to promote. If a child has trouble maintaining a
healthy bedtime routine or has consistent issues with falling asleep and
staying asleep, an occupational therapist can conduct an evaluation to
identify a potential underlying health concern and/or provide additional
strategies.
“Occupational therapists play a pivotal role in
helping children and adults to live life to its fullest potential,” says
Doll. “They can offer advice on how to make sleep something the child
sees as part of a good, healthy lifestyle, and reduce the stress of
everyone in the family.”
To view the American Occupational Therapy Association’s tip sheet on Establishing Bedtime Routines for Children, visit http://www.aota.org.
Photo: Yastremska
Originally published: January 22, 2013
Republished: January 25, 2017