There has been a substantial drop in the amount of time children spend  playing outside over the last sixty years.  Research suggests that parents’ fears of abduction, bullying, and their children being hit by a car are all reasons they try to keep their kids inside.  However, these fears may do more harm than good. Studies show that not only do children need uninhibited outdoor play-time in order to develop and hone social skills, but that they need it for general happiness. According to a survey, 89 percent of children would rather play outside than watch television.

In a story released by womenshealth.gov on Thursday, researchers make the case that uninterrupted childhood play helps to teach kids life skills, like negotiating and anger management, that they will later need as adults.  Even organized sports and clubs for kids cannot replace the benefits of “free play” because kids are required to follow the rules.

The good news is that the time a Savvy Auntie spends with a niece or nephew is often uninterrupted free play as the auntie lets her niece or nephew take the lead. That imaginary tea party in the garden? Don’t mind if you have a second cup. Warriors vs. aliens? Well you may gladly sit by the sidelines and watch your nephews create the awesome battle they win.

Let your nieces and nephews choose the open-ended play and make the rules. Encourage them invite friends and cousins to join in, as the interaction with other kids will enhance their social skills as well. Play is the one thing we can’t take for granted, Auntie. Play is certainly not something to leave for a rainy day.

Published: September 28, 2011